Saturday, March 30, 2013

How to avoid falling in love with someone you can't have

I miss you!!! I miss you my darling blog! oh mann... I always wanted to write in my awesome awesome blog. I just don't get the chance to do so. These days are busy busy busy. my mind are tired, my eyes are restless, my body are weaken, my soul caught a fever.. hahaha love symptoms maybe? lols!

Talking about Love. what do I know about LOVE? *angkat bahu*
Honestly, I don't know. If anyone asked me what is love? how is it to be in love? how does it feel? advice about love? ho ho hoo.. you got the wrong person ladies and gentlemen. wrong personn.. wrong person. *continue saying it about 10 thousand times* lols! I'm not a good person in giving Love advice. If you got love problem, find Dr. Love. If you want to avoid Love then find me! hahaha

I've got some tips to share with you.. yes, for those of you who are here because of this entry title. hahaha. How to avoid falling in love with someone you can't have. Why you have to avoid? asked your self. hurmm, many reason right? such as, the person is married already, you are engaged to someone, you are a wife of someone, you are in different religion, you have different believes, the person is not your parent's types of guy, you are insecure about yourself (for what? I also don't know. Its you, not me haha), you or him are still in school, the person you are about to fall in love is drugs addict, the person have major sicknesses like spiritually major sicknesses (black magic), the person is the lahad datu militant, heyy its just many many more reason! believe me, we all like someone that we can't have. Just give me a reason just a lil bit enough.. *suddenly Pink song appeared* keh keh keh. not related at all!

Well for whatever reason it is, which I know right now you guys really need a tips to avoid to fall in love, please try these...

a) Avoid feeling lonely

You got to ease your heart. when loneliness attack, you tent to focus on that individual. Ask your self why are you feeling lonely? is that because all your same aged friend are married? come onn! extend your network. be friend with kids! keep your self busy. tell you what, don't fall in love because you're feeling lonely. Its a big mistake. you are not honest to the person. The feeling will fade. find a good reason to fall in love. can you at least do that to yourself? thanks!

b) Avoid Sharing personal information

This is really important because it might provokes deep feelings in you. This is because bonding starts from relating one with the other through empathy. Remember, the more you share, the more you get to know the person. you'll start to feel empathy, start to finds the similarity and start to accept the person.

c) Don't fantasize about the person

Wahh.. this is not good at all. The more you fantasize about the person the more you want the person. Its more like motivation for you to let your self fall for the person. Remember during school days, our teacher teach us to daydream? to fantasize what are we going to be in the future? what kind of life we want to live in? they tell us to dream and fantasized soo we can walk the dream. hahaha like walk the talk? lols. soo, my advise is dont start or try to fantasize about the person if you really wanted to avoid falling in love with that person. hey...not even the word "what if..." in your mind ya!

Those three are crucial ones that need explanation. Besides, you can practice these too if necessary..

- Don't accept gifts, services, touch, money nor favors from the person. Don't give them either.
- Don't be that person's psychiatrist. If that person needs someone to talk to, then they will have to find someone else.
- Don't praise the person. Making someone's ego inflate make you seem more beautiful.

Get it? get it?

But hey!! ignore what I just said if you want to fall in love with the person. Ask your heart sincerely. Decide early and quickly soo you'll know what is the right thing to do.


In case you already fall in love before practicing those tips above, Lets just enjoy this song..


Can't Help Falling In Love ~ song covered by my favorite band 'twenty one pilots'




Wise men say only fools rush in
But I can't help falling in love with you
Shall I stay
Would it be a sin
If I can't help falling in love with you

Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand, take my whole life too
For I can't help falling in love with you

Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand, take my whole life too
For I can't help falling in love with you
For I can't help falling in love with you



*I know you love this song too. Time to avoid me! Time to avoid you! shushh! ;p

6 comments:

yaadahria said...

saya sokong akak. memang tu je cara nak avoid kita jatuh cinta pada org yang tak sepatutnya :)

Che Sakinah said...

Thank you. meh kita hi5 sikit! *yeay*
Take good care of your self okey dear :)

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